Etiquette & FAQs

I am currently based full time in Sacramento, California with monthly visits to the Seattle metro area. I am willing and able to travel to the Bay Area with a few days notice, and anywhere on the West Coast within a week’s notice. I will travel anywhere across the country with advanced planning - see my offerings page for details.

When I travel, I will post my touring dates on my twitter and website footer and my calendar. While touring, I typically host from a centrally located hotel.

Nope - my screening process is put in place with both of our safety in mind. The purpose of screening is to determine that you are a SAFE person to see, and nothing else. Your deposit ensures that you are committed to our time together and prevents fantasy bookings. All screening information is deleted upon our first meeting, and my email and texting services are both secure and encrypted.

I see people of any race, ability, ethnicity, religion, gender, presentation, TLBGQIA+ status, etc. I am newbie friendly and I enthusiastically and excitedly see couples and LOVE being booked as a treat for you both (screening required for both parties). If you have special needs or concerns, I would be delighted to set up a phone or video conversation to go over them and answer any questions you may have.

You will be told explicitly if we are not a match and will not be meeting. This is likely because some aspect of your screening info presented a concern for my safety, you have questionable references, or it is clear that our chemistry is not well matched. If the latter, I am happy to make referrals to other providers who may be a better fit for you.

Mutual respect and consent are mandatory. I will not tolerate my personal boundaries being debated, ridiculed, or pushed in any way. Any kind of this behavior will be seen as a threat to my health and safety and will, at my discretion, result in me walking out of our appointment with no refund given. I will, of course, respect and honor your own boundaries during our encounter.

If you have questions regarding what to expect during our date, or if you have specific needs or preferences, I offer consultation calls for $50 which will be applied towards your deposit should you choose to book.

I have a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to clients who arrive intoxicated, and I do not allow party drugs of any kind.

I understand that sometimes life gets in the way. However, I enforce a cancellation policy and it is non-negotiable.

Cancellations within 48 hours of the date, will be required to pay 50% of my full rate as the cancellation fee.

Cancellations within 24 hours of the date, will be required to pay 100% of my full rate as a cancellation fee.

If you fail to pay a cancellation fee within 24 hours you will be blacklisted immediately.

If you paid a deposit, that deposit is transferrable to a date within the same week or the same dates while I am touring. If I have to cancel, that deposit will be returned within 48hrs, via the same method you used to pay.

Cash is always preferred. However, up to 50% of your payment may be sent digitally 5 business days before your appointment.

CashApp: Sent increments no greater than $350, please leave the note section BLANK.

Bitcoin: Please let me know ASAP if you prefer this option and I will send you my wallet information.

I opt for fashionable casual clothing when meeting in public, or comfortable, sexy loungewear when meeting at my incall. If you have specific outfit requests, you may bring these items (my measurements are 38/31/38, 36DD). I would love to put on a sexy fashion show for you!

I prefer natural nails, hair, and makeup, however you may request a more “glam” look for an additional fee.

Yes please!! Gift giving is my #1 love language.

The best way to ensure I will love a gift is to ask me what I’d like first, I keep my wishlists up to date but it’s always best to confirm an item hasn’t already been purchased. Surprises are great, but the anticipation of knowing I have a gift incoming is just as exciting!

To find my wishlists, email me or check out my links page.

If you’d like to bring snacks to share during our date, I am partial to fruits and vegetables (organic only please!), cheese plates (my favorite!), and dark chocolate.

When hosting or being hosted on private property, in areas where marijuana is legal, I am VERY 420 friendly! I do drink, though only in moderation on dates. I prefer a dry rosé or sparkling brut. You can learn more about what excites me on my links page!

I deeply enjoy working with couples, especially when I get to watch you two discover new things about each other. I have found threesomes to be incredibly fulfilling in my own life, and I will do my best to help give you both an incredible, fun experience!

My rate for couples is 1.5x my standard hourly rate. Also, I will need to speak to both of you via phone or email (at least) at some point to make sure everyone is on the same page. Surprising them is a great fantasy, but trust me, they would rather know about it ahead of time and be properly prepared.

YES! It’s always fun with friends. Please reach out via e-mail, I’d love to have a friend come play with us!

My rate + theirs, matched to the higher rate. You can find a list of friends on my offerings page.

I have multiple platforms on which I share photos and videos regularly (see my links page!) and I have a private gallery section of my website, the password to which I share with suitors who pass my screening.

I only offer references for clients whom I have seen in the last 6 months.

Please let me know ahead of time, so that I can keep an eye out, and remember that serving as a reference for you IS WORK, so I would love to see a tip or tribute attached to your email when you reach out to me about it.

If you are waiting for a reply from me, check your spam! I typically respond in 1-2 business days, but sometimes my emails go to junk/spam folders.

I may be out of office - you can see what days I’m working by visiting my meet page and viewing the calendar.

You may have sent an explicit message or did not fully complete your booking form; I will not accept review board handles as references. You must list 2 verified providers and include their contact information.

I do not reply to the following messages:

• “hey” “hi” “wyd” etc.

• Explicit and/or sexual content

• Questions that are answered on my website

• Forms with links to Review Boards or other Ad websites