Would you like to get to know me a little better? If we plan to spend time together, I’ve found it helpful (and quite delightful!) to compare notes on the things that bring us joy.

Here are some of the things that have been bringing me joy lately!

Dates I like to go on

A long walk and cooking a homemade meal together

Snuggling all warm and cozy on the couch with your favorite movie on

Dinner and a burlesque show at Harlow’s

A visit to a botanical garden with a homemade picnic

Holding hands in an art museum, excitedly sharing our favorite pieces

Books

Lately, I have been absolutely devouring fantasy novels (esecially if they’re cozy and/or a little spooky), historical fiction with strong female leads, and history non-fiction with compelling storytelling.   

You can find my book wishlist here, though I prefer when books are purchased from independent bookstore!

Some examples of books I read and enjoyed recently:

The Great Mortality – John Kelly

Small Things like These – Claire Keegan

The Black Bird Oracle – Deborah Harkness

Lucy Undying – Kiersten White

Board game

Wingspan

I LOVE BIRDS SO MUCH. This engine-building game is all about birds, and it’s lovely. Plus, the soundtrack is amazing. Yes. there’s a soundtrack!!

I also love playing Magic: The Gathering (tell me about your Commander deck 👀)

Games I’ve been wanting to learn: Arkham Horror, Mysterium.

Video game

Baldur’s Gate 3

I’ve been asolutely CONSUMED by this game for the last year and of course I modded it so that I can romance every character because why wouldn’t I?!

TV show

At the moment: True Blood

This is a rewatch for me, but I was a wee tyke when I first watched this show and I am finding it phenomenally entertaining. I’m just a real slut for vampires, ya know?

Scent

Le Labo Rose 31

This particular scent is an excellent compliment to my own natural scent - maple syrup (I kid you not).

Way to cheer myself up

Joyful movement, especially dancing!

Place to travel

Anywhere with a beach or great diving!

Recently I’ve been dreaming of visits to a few places:

New Orleans

Fiji

Scotland (particularly the Outer Hebrides!)

Iceland

Mexico City

Colombia

Flowers

Peonies, Dahlias, Cosmos, Poppies, Mums - anything that seems perfect in its imperfection

Wine

Dry, weird orange wines have been really inspiring me lately. I also love a sparkling brut, a dry rosé (extra points if you can find an Austrian Rosé), and light reds. All natural when possible, of course!

Really I like anything fresh and funky! This goes for beers too, I love a fun wild ale or tart saison. 

Mixed drink

I love rum-based tiki drinks, even if I don’t like the way I often feel in the morning if I forget to hydrate!

Meal

Ramen, Pho, and Sushi (want to really impress me? Take me out for omakase.)

Snacks

Organic berries, crudité and hummus, almond flour crackers and cheese (chèvre, hard sheep’s milk cheeses, or aged cheddars are always winners for me!).

Sweet Treat

Dark chocolate, fruit tarts, and the best chocolate chip cookie you can find.

How I like my coffee

Latte or Cappuccino, decaf, always! I get edgy and anxious if I’m over-caffeinated, which does NOT make for a sexy time.  I like warm flavors like brown sugar or spice. Pistachio milk is best, but coconut milk or oat milk are a close second.

How I like to be touched

Softly at first, sensually, with playful intent and openness. Then, once my body opens up, all kinds of variety, please!