Frequently asked questions.

Wait, where are you located??

I am currently based full time in Sacramento, California with frequent visits (monthly) to the Seattle metro area. I am willing and able to travel to the Bay Area with a few days notice, and anywhere on the West Coast within a week’s notice. I will travel anywhere across the country with advanced planning - see my rates page for details!

Where do you host?

In Sacramento I have a comfortable, spacious, and discreet incall in the Natomas area. In Seattle, I have an incall in North Seattle, or can book a room closer to you! While touring, I typically host from a hotel in a central location.

I don’t feel comfortable with some or all of your screening and deposit process. Is there another way?

Nope - my screening process is put in place with both of our safety in mind. The purpose of screening is to determine that you are a SAFE person to see, and nothing else. Your deposit ensures that you are committed to our time together and prevents fantasy bookings. All screening information is deleted upon our first meeting, and my email and texting services are both secure and encrypted.

Will you see me if…?

I see people of any race, ability, ethnicity, religion, gender, presentation, TLBGQIA+ status, etc. I enthusiastically and excitedly see couples and LOVE being booked as a treat for you both (screening required for both parties). If you have special needs or concerns, I would be delighted to set up a phone or video conversation to go over them and answer any questions you may have.

You will be told explicitly if we are not a match and will not be meeting, this is likely because some aspect of your screening info presented a concern for my safety, you have questionable references, or it is clear we will not make a good match based on our interactions.

How do I give you the money without it being awkward or weird?

When we first greet each other, it should be the first thing we take care of, please. You can hand it to me directly in an envelope or leave it on a nearby surface. My favorite is when you choose a greeting card for me and leave the cash in there with a little note. I promise, it’s not awkward or weird for me, and it makes it easier to relax and enjoy ourselves once the business is out of the way.

Can I bring you something? Buy you a gift?

Yes please!! I love receiving gifts and/or tips. The best way to ensure I will love a gift is to ask me what I’d like first, I keep my wishlists up to date but it’s always best to confirm an item hasn’t already been purchased. Surprises are great, but the anticipation of knowing I have a gift incoming is just as exciting! To find my wishlists, email me or check out my links page.

Do you take hair/makeup/outfit requests?

Within reason, of course. I prefer knowing your desired vibe or style rather than specific requirements. If your preferences are very particular, feel free to send a shopping stipend or bring me (new) outfits, shoes, makeup, etc. to wear for you.

Are you 420 friendly? What about booze?

When hosting or being hosted on private property, in areas where marijuana is legal, I am VERY 420 friendly! I do drink, though only in moderation on dates. I prefer a dry rosé or sparkling brut, though I’m partial to bourbon as well!

Where can I find more photos of you?

I have multiple platforms on which I share photos and videos regularly, see my links page. I also have a private gallery section of my website, the password to which I share with suitors who pass my screening!

Can I use you as a reference?

If we have seen each other in the last 6 months, OR you were/are a regular of mine. Please let me know ahead of time I can keep an eye out, and remember that serving as a reference for you IS WORK, so I would love to see a tip or tribute attached to your email when you reach out to me about it.

What exactly is your booking process?

Follow these steps and I can guarantee a great time together!

1. DO YOUR RESEARCH. Check my socials, website, ads, etc. to confirm you understand the process, my vibe, and my rates.

2. Visit the “Meet” page of my website and fill our your screening information, or text/email it to me FULLY.

3. Send deposit promptly when it is requested.

4. Wait, dream, plan, fantasize, etc. and I will get back to you as soon as I can.

5. Show up on time and excited, payment in hand.

6. HAVE FUN! Tip if you enjoyed yourself :)

7. Try not to miss me too much before our next date, hehe.

What are your rules?

Mutual respect and consent are mandatory. I will not tolerate my personal boundaries being debated, ridiculed, or pushed in any way. Any kind of this behavior will be seen as a threat to my health and safety and will, at my discretion, result in me walking out of our appointment with no refund given. I will, of course, respect and honor your own boundaries during our encounter. I do not have a specific “no” list, nor do I discuss what “services” I offer in advance of our date; instead, I ask that we discuss boundaries together at the start of our date (hence me requiring a minimum of 1 hour for first visits). With that being said, I require that safe play is practiced at all times for both your health and my own.

Cancellation policy: Within 24 hours of our booking, I will expect payment in full. A deposit will be required for all bookings and is nonrefundable.